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On Tap is the podcast that celebrates the heart and soul of blue-collar working class culture. We'll be hosting some amazing folks from the blue-collar world and beyond. Listen in as we chat with industry legends, unsung heroes, and experts in their fields. Their stories, experiences, and insights will inspire and entertain you. Comedy is our secret sauce. Kody & Sam have a knack for turning everyday work stories into side-splitting anecdotes. Prepare for laughter, hilarious work-related mishaps, and a good dose of humor to brighten your day. Whether you're clocking in for your shift or winding down after a hard day's work, "On Tap" is your go-to podcast for a dose of blue-collar pride, a taste of the finest brews, a good laugh, and a fresh take on the world's current events. Subscribe now and be part of the working-class revolution!
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Embracing the Chaos of Parenting With Taylor (Kody's Wife) 🍼 On Tap #198
Have you ever found yourself laughing in the face of parenting conundrums, or perhaps you've caught yourself deep in thought over the perfect balance of chores and chocolate in your household? Kody's wife, Taylor, joins us in a jovial yet earnest expedition through the ups and downs of her pregnancy journey and the intricate dance of family life. We're peeling back the curtain on the highs and lows, from battling lawn-shaming to navigating the challenge of what our kids munch on. Taylor's insights paint a vivid picture of our shared experiences, contrasting Kody's sometimes clueless medical knowledge.
0:00 Taylor and Kody's Pregnancy Journey
9:33 Parenting Differences on Nutrition and Chores
14:34 Parenting and Podcast Priorities
24:15 Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Disagreements
32:23 Navigating Arguments and Resolving Conflict
35:50 Apologies, Graduations, and Respect
42:48 The Value of College Experiences
49:35 Returning to Pine City
53:01 Celebrating Mother Figures Without Limitations
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Taylor, why did you just add me back on Snapchat today?
Speaker 2:Okay. So I got onto Snapchat and I knew someone was going to call me up you motherfucker. I was hurt. I just went on my Snapchat and it was. I thought it was like can you follow people on Snapchat and then like also have people added Like? I thought I it said like your followers and I only had like 10 people on, so I went through and deleted them all. But then I couldn't like your followers and I only had like 10 people on, so I went through and deleted them all, but then I couldn't Like. I deleted them off my friends list too.
Speaker 3:I don't know how Snapchat works. I don't know what that means that sounds like the most elaborate lie I've ever heard, I would agree.
Speaker 4:I would agree. That doesn't even make sense.
Speaker 3:At least you got an ad back.
Speaker 1:Taylor hate blocked me and then she felt bad about it.
Speaker 4:No, sam, I love you or maybe she knew it was gonna catch up to her. Okay, well, ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to another episode of on tap. Today we have my biggest critic, aka my wife, on today, taylor hughes. How's it going today, taylor?
Speaker 3:good, how are you?
Speaker 1:good, really good I just want to say right away that my day is much better now that I'm in the presence of taylor taylor. I want to say you away that my day is much better now that I'm in the presence of Taylor Taylor. I want to say you are glowing right now. Thank, you. And it's such an honor to have you. Mitch and I are ecstatic. We want to talk about Baldy over here, get some insights of what we have going on.
Speaker 4:Yeah, the last episode was so good, but everything that we keep hearing is that you were too easy on me, so we figured we would just open the floor up, open the floodgates and just let you get it all out. No holding back.
Speaker 3:What a better time than the pregnancy hormones that are all-time high right now, you can really lay into them and no one can get mad at you about it, can?
Speaker 4:we stand up for a second so the people can see really how pregnant you are. Oh my goodness, she's about to pop Literally, at any minute.
Speaker 1:I think she's even further along than when she featured in the Santa skit. Yes, she was pretty pregnant for that one too. Yes, she was. With your child as Santa, my bastard child.
Speaker 4:Okay, so what were some of the things you think that she held back on the last episode that we had her on?
Speaker 2:Hold on, hold on. So some of the things you think that she held back on the last episode that we had her on Hold on, hold on.
Speaker 4:So here's the thing you said. I can just say whatever I want. We're just going to let her start, no questions.
Speaker 2:I just want one comment If I do that when it's just me and you, I'm going to get in trouble later.
Speaker 4:You gaslighting son of a bitch. No, she is diabolical with this. She's playing chess right now. First off, she is this is an excuse. Now for her to say oh, I thought you were going to get mad, so I didn't say anything. That's not true at all. Okay, continue, Go ahead.
Speaker 2:Cody is known for being a little aggressive. Does he interrupt you guys? Oh, he's an interrupter.
Speaker 3:Yeah, if it's not with his agenda, he's the first one to tell you that you are wrong.
Speaker 4:My nickname in high school was the interrupter.
Speaker 2:I went to high school with you. That was not it.
Speaker 1:Thank you for clarifying. So, taylor, I know we're not asking questions, but I've just been curious. You've been going through all these changes. You've had a lot going on in. I just wonder has Cody been, you know, really understanding and helpful through this process?
Speaker 2:How has Cody been, as as the father of this future child?
Speaker 4:Um, yes and no oh here we go.
Speaker 2:Like he doesn't understand medical things which he's admitted to. So I feel like he like what?
Speaker 4:do you mean by medical things? That I don't understand, I think.
Speaker 1:I know what she's saying. She's saying that she has knowledge that you don't, and it kills you inside. That she's smarter than you on medical. I wasn't thinking that, but I like that.
Speaker 2:I feel like you are just like more naive to maybe some things because you are not naive, but like you are just like more naive to maybe some things because you are not naive, but like you just don't understand You've said it before at, like our doctor appointments, like, oh well, I just don't understand that. So like I just don't know about it Like what.
Speaker 4:Can you give me an example? Miscarriages.
Speaker 2:Like when we were talking about like that was something I was scared of just because, like I work with someone like who saw someone with a lot of like patients with a lot of miscarriages, so I was scared I'd have one for no reason yeah right, and you just had no thoughts.
Speaker 4:But with my luck we don't have anything to worry about. Obviously, that wouldn't happen to us.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, I mean obviously, hey you better knock on some wood, brother.
Speaker 1:I'm not taking this one to chance.
Speaker 4:I'm knocking on the bracing below here. Yeah, so other than that, is that a downside, though I feel like that's good because I mean think if I was carrying the same weight of like this worry that that was going to happen, I feel like that would be terrible to be around If both of us were constantly worried about.
Speaker 4:I'm just saying, like if both of us were feeding into this negative thought that that might even be a possibility that could potentially in and of itself make it a reality. So for me, I just have total blind faith.
Speaker 3:Like that will not happen to us okay, that's fair I'm already having like these terrible flashbacks of last time we had a taylor episode. I'm like I want to be on taylor's, I want to shit on Cody, and then he says things that I'm like, fuck, I really I'm on his side about a lot of things when he talks and it pisses me off. I want to be on your side more than anything.
Speaker 2:Let's hear whose side you're going to be on. Okay, Support right. First trimester the worst thing ever. You're so tired and for me, I was sick for 15 weeks like nauseous all day long, like you ever had a really, really bad hangover.
Speaker 4:Let's call it 14 and a half.
Speaker 2:I ate some chipotle last night and I woke up with a bubble, like you wouldn't now picture that for 15 weeks straight every day okay all day long I'm on your side, so now you have a toddler, too, that you're also taking care of who's an angel and we love him, and you're also taking care of who's an angel. And Lincoln and we love him, and you're working a full-time job and now you get home from work and your husband's getting a little pissy with you because you're tired all the time and you need a little extra help around the house.
Speaker 3:Okay, what kind of extra help, though, is it just like he's just being an asshole, yep.
Speaker 4:Like the dishes like I, just I, I do a lot of dishes and he wanted.
Speaker 2:He wanted to be recognized for that. Oh, I'm sure he did not taylor.
Speaker 1:Did you happen to notice that there was no dishes in the sink?
Speaker 2:every time he did something, he had to tell me I did the laundry, I I did the dishes. Oh, okay, well, I deep clean our house once a week. Like, do you want me to tell you that every time I do something?
Speaker 4:I clean our toilets. How many?
Speaker 2:times have you cleaned our toilets in our new house We've lived in for two years?
Speaker 4:Zero. Really, I don't clean toilets.
Speaker 2:How many times have you vacuumed, mopped and swept the floors? Twice vacuumed, mopped and swept the floors twice. I love how you can count it.
Speaker 4:On one hand, that was bullshit. So I've vacuumed and swept, for sure more than twice, but never mopped.
Speaker 2:Okay, next question I love him but like that first trimester was really hard and like that is a way I could have used support is just more help around the house and not feeling guilty. He made me feel really bad about it.
Speaker 3:I did. Oh, my God dude.
Speaker 2:Yes, because you called me out all the time You're like. Well, I have to do more around the house and pay the bills, oh Wow.
Speaker 4:That definitely was a conversation, but that is totally out of context. I love this so much Good gosh. Okay, on to the next topic here.
Speaker 3:I think one of the things that you really I smell, I smell, you did really you took it pretty easy on him last time when we asked you like your pet peeves, because he had just happened to clip his toenails on the floor and you just really zoned in on that.
Speaker 2:I want you to know that I found some again.
Speaker 3:Well, that doesn't surprise me. I'm also a toenail clipper. If I am laying in bed and I'm like, fuck, my toenails need to get clipped, I'm just flinging them things. The room will get vacuumed eventually, it's fine.
Speaker 2:God bless Brooke. God bless her. She's a nice girl. Do you vacuum? Is it Brooke vacuuming the room after you clip your toenails all over?
Speaker 3:I vacuum, I vacuum. First of all I would say I vacuum more than she does, but we also don't live together.
Speaker 4:All right, let's call her.
Speaker 3:We can call her, I'm serious. I will say putting the away my I I'm so bad about putting laundry away like I have a walk-in closet and I will do the laundry together. We did. I will pull my clothes out of the dryer, walk into my room and throw them on the floor. I don't give a fuck. I. I hate hanging up clothes more than anything in the world. So I will give her her props on that. She does that a lot, especially for not even living there.
Speaker 4:We've decided that the easiest way for us is just wait until both of us can do it together. Otherwise it's a massive fight of who's going to put it away, because it gets stacked up way too much. Both of us have a lot of clothes and both of us wear a lot of clothes.
Speaker 2:Cody's laundry pile will be like this and mine's like this.
Speaker 1:Okay, I'm sorry that I don't always wear dirty underwear like hey, cody, you did make me feel better, though one day you were telling me that you'll wear the same jeans like four days?
Speaker 4:yeah, you have to. As long as they don't smell, jeans are fine. I didn't.
Speaker 2:I didn't know that was a sweater a couple times, but Cody wears something once A pity boy here. He has to watch it.
Speaker 3:For some reason, I feel like the only thing on Okay, so long sleeves. I usually don't wear long sleeves. I'm wearing one right now. Usually you can get two wears out of a long sleeve, a short sleeve, one time only. You do not put that thing, you're wearing a.
Speaker 2:Wearing a long sleeve.
Speaker 3:Yeah, it's just rolled up. I had to check them on hoodies hoodies you can, I mean until they're dirty, dude. Hoodies are just like pants. You can wear them infinitely, basically until they smell.
Speaker 4:Pretty often, though but I'm usually out doing man shit in the garage and getting dirty and fucking.
Speaker 1:I did notice. I gave you some shit about your lawn not being mowed and I don't know, maybe it was the next day you were out there mowing it I did, I did, I thought about that for a long time.
Speaker 4:I thought about at least came up in my head at least every hour for the next 24 and I'm like, yeah, I gotta go get a new battery for the lawnmower dude.
Speaker 1:I just I felt bad man.
Speaker 3:That's like rule number one is you never shame a man about his lawn, okay no, it's a pretty disrespectful thing to do to another man is to ever even comment on his lawn.
Speaker 4:But our yard is shit right now, so it's hard it is we had to get a new well, so they fucked up my entire nice grass that I had grown right there, and so it looks bad right now it does.
Speaker 3:But as a man, I feel like this is still on Sam, because he should recognize that you are working on your lawn, you're trying to make your lawn better, and the fact that he's even bringing up the fact that your lawn's not mowed is kind of fucked up. I'm gonna.
Speaker 4:I'm just gonna shoot you straight here. This is actually a really good metaphor for just life in general, like I'm working on myself and you're gonna tell me that I'm the problem well, maybe learn how to clip your fucking toenails into the garbage can, and we won't have to.
Speaker 1:In reality, I was more concerned for your child running around in that long undrained grass with the ticks that could potentially be getting on him.
Speaker 3:I mean unsafe.
Speaker 4:He knows that you were going to be on his side for this, and he needed someone else to team up with him.
Speaker 2:I'll always team up.
Speaker 4:That was a brilliant play. He's also playing chess right now. I want to ask too. Okay, I'm scared of Neil.
Speaker 1:I want to cut off whatever Cody was going to say, because I want to ask you about. You know meal prep boy over here. I'm sure he's had some pretty stinky farts around the house. I'm sure he hasn't shut the fuck up about working out. Has that been a problem with you at all? Has it been getting on your nerves?
Speaker 4:I know you guys already know this, but I want to also point it out again for this episode, since it was brought up so much by you guys last episode. But I, I am very fit and I am very handsome and uh, okay, go ahead, say what you're gonna say yeah, he, uh, he needs to quit with the fucking meals.
Speaker 2:And what's healthy?
Speaker 4:it's killing me okay, okay, okay, hold on. This is a whole thing. Listen. Yesterday morning our kid wakes up at 5 am. Oh, what's that?
Speaker 2:and it was 5 30.
Speaker 4:You drama queen okay, 5, 30, I'm sorry, 30 minutes yesterday he woke up at at fucking 3.
Speaker 2:Am ready to rip oh, watch your language. There's a child in the presence.
Speaker 4:There's a child in your belly right now. Okay, so our kid wakes up at 5.30 in the morning and because she had an empty fruit snacks wrapper on her end table and he's looking at it and pointing at it, she's like, oh, he wants fruit snacks. Go get fruit snacks. I'm like it's 5.30 in the morning, I'm not giving my kid fruit snacks.
Speaker 2:Are you out of your mind? If that starts his day off, great, no, no.
Speaker 4:And he likes them. I'm not giving him fruit snacks. They're made with real juice.
Speaker 1:No, they're not. You should have gave him some brown rice and some ground beef.
Speaker 2:Honestly, oh, we got some mixed veggies in them now.
Speaker 4:We got to get them on a meal plan immediately. I'm not like anti-fruit snacks, just not at 5.30 in the morning.
Speaker 2:Just one day.
Speaker 4:Not as his first meal of the day. The kid can't even make his own decisions.
Speaker 1:We gotta make good decisions for him right now Do you not like spontaneous treats? No, are you just a fun-rooted dog? I?
Speaker 4:do, but at appropriate times After a long day or we're hanging out, or we're just chilling, or it's the middle of the day or any time other than 5.30 in the morning, really.
Speaker 1:He's been busting his ass doing dishes because you won't.
Speaker 4:He has actually been doing a lot of dishes. We got him a little dish set. He can do his own dishes.
Speaker 1:The man needs some fruit snacks in the morning. You're going to hold them for him.
Speaker 4:I'm sticking to this.
Speaker 2:I will double down on this I'm not letting my kid have fruit snacks at 5.30 in the morning. It's just like sometimes Cody's just a little too over the top about what's healthy and I'm convinced he gets everything from a fucking podcast.
Speaker 4:I don't want him to have that red 40 stare when he gets older.
Speaker 3:First of all, dude, the ultimate human with Garyary brekka, will teach you some things there's nothing wrong with some?
Speaker 4:health tips from a guy who knows you're right, that's exactly where I got this from. She's all pissed off that I don't want to give him white bread and I'm like, hey, we have the ability to just get him different bread. It tastes even better. The stuff that I get tastes even better, has everything bagel seasoning on it tastes better than white bread.
Speaker 1:You better. You should start getting him like that crunchy ass shit bread that I just can't fucking stand and train him on that while he's young, because if you start him with white bread, everything else sucks yeah, you'll never go back.
Speaker 3:I I can't get off the white bread. I it's one of them things where it's like I'm on the white bread, I'd rather cut it all together than have like wheat, like wheat bread.
Speaker 1:It's just like it's a tease, yeah it does suck, it's like it wants to be good, but it's just not there my dad's a big fucking.
Speaker 3:What is that? Like seven grain, like it just tastes like you're eating fucking crunchy peanut butter.
Speaker 4:There's like chunks in it. Oh god, it's fucking gross, anything that's crunchy.
Speaker 1:That's not supposed to be crunchy. Fucking irks me the wrong way am I?
Speaker 3:Am I wrong to say that crunchy peanut butter kind of fucking blows?
Speaker 1:I would never buy it in a million years.
Speaker 2:I like crunchy peanut butter.
Speaker 1:I don't. I actually like crunchy peanut butter a lot too, like with like raspberry.
Speaker 3:Yeah, okay, I'm sorry to get off on a tangent there. I just wanted to get it out there.
Speaker 4:I'm trying to think in my head. What are some things that are recurring bits at home, that are constant arguments between you and I, you want to bring up our fights to the whole world. Well, I'm just thinking they say you were too easy on me before, so I'm trying to give you ideas of like.
Speaker 2:You don't need to give me ideas. I've been thinking of a lot.
Speaker 4:Okay, let it, let loose, let loose, let's get a rip.
Speaker 1:Does the podcast ever piss you off with how much time cody has to spend here and yes and no.
Speaker 2:I feel like when he first started it did, and sometimes I get frustrated with it because up until like two months ago he was not home a lot and was gone in the evenings because he was doing the podcast like every fucking night and then I was just home with link I work a full-time job and then I was home all night with lincoln every night by myself, and I don't get like one day a week. I don't even get like to just do something for myself, like in the summer last year I played horseshoes so I had one night a week, but since then I've never had just like one night that it's like I can get home from work and just do whatever I want. It's just I get home from work and I'm like expected to be taking care of lincoln we've changed that.
Speaker 4:That's all good now. Hey, the credit was given it's all good I said the credit was given up.
Speaker 2:So up until like a month or two ago, I I never got like oh, now it's a month or two.
Speaker 4:That's what I said.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, month or two up until then, I feel like I would get frustrated just of the fact that he was just like trying to provide for the family.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I get it gone honestly.
Speaker 3:I just want to give Cody props for like prodding your pregnant wife like this. I would be so scared to just say what you just said.
Speaker 2:He always does that yeah.
Speaker 4:So I mean the reality of it is it's expensive having kids, you know, I mean obviously you know, and the podcast being a dumb four-year-long journey that doesn't make very much money but consumes most of my time.
Speaker 2:A lot money but consumes most of my time. A lot like you guys think it, cody might just come and sit here for an hour and like it's hours and hours and hours at home of like editing and then so, even if sometimes he is home and not like physically doing the podcast, but then he's like editing and it's it's a lot of work.
Speaker 1:I don't, I don't think that I.
Speaker 3:I think that he does do a lot of fucking background and ever since he started.
Speaker 2:I've always tried to give him his flowers on that because it is Because, like, you now have some new programs that help you with your editing and stuff, so it can be a little bit quicker. But it's just like there's been times that I've like totally not supported the podcast and I'm like you need to quit, like you're not making that much money from it.
Speaker 3:You've put so much money into it and it is so time consuming, like it's taken away from our family like this is just not worth it. But now you see the vision, now you see that we're gonna be, I said, fuck that, the boy's got some poop jokes to tell let's get back, run it back I don't see the vision.
Speaker 2:I want it to take off and be awesome and everything he has ever wanted. But how much stress, stress he gets, like it's just. Sometimes I'm like, is this even worth it? Like how stressed you are and how much work you put into it, Like is this worth it. But now I feel like that he's found a better balance.
Speaker 4:Yeah, well, here's the thing too. I also haven't really posted any clips. I haven't really edited that much in the last month or two anyways, so like that's a big part of it. But I've definitely thought that to myself, where it's like is this even worth it? But then I think to myself, like the way my brain works, like if I'm not putting all this effort into it, into the podcast, it's gonna be into something else, like I have that, yeah, hyper fixation or whatever I'm doing, he quits the podcast.
Speaker 1:He's going to be annoying. You better prepare for that.
Speaker 2:He would never be home, like he's just go, go, go busy, like he would a hundred percent find something else. Yeah. Something else would fill that time, so I might as well just keep working on this thing that I've been working on for four years you know, I feel like as a mom, it's like we are expected a little bit more to do, like certain things as a mom, like when you have a kid like I had to ask to take a shower when we had lincoln or to go somewhere, like hey, can I?
Speaker 4:take a shower.
Speaker 2:You didn't have to ask, but but it's a mom thing whereas like you're like I'm going to the gym, like not, hey, can I go to, like it's so different. We're like still lincoln's a year and a half and I'm like, hey, can I have a hair appointment on this day, at this time, or on saturday, can I go do this? Like I'd literally have to ask cody to make sure he can be there to take care of them so he can pre-approve and he'll just look at me like, hey, saturday, I'm doing this like it's.
Speaker 4:I'm told well, is does sound fucked up. Is that just you trying to?
Speaker 3:avoid a fight and Cody not trying to avoid a fight, no, it's literally like a mom, like so many moms talk about it Like it's just and it's not, like.
Speaker 2:I don't think he's not doing it to be like evil or mean or anything, it's just like I don't do you just think I'm like what I'm?
Speaker 3:I'm just playing devil's advocate. I'm not on anyone's side. I don't want to start a fight. All I'm thinking is like you're saying that because, like the way a woman's mind work is like I'm trying to keep cody happy mitch knows right, no, wait a second. And cody's mind is like, oh, this needs to happen. I'm just gonna do it and I I maybe take too long to consider other people's feelings before I say that.
Speaker 2:No, I just truly believe. Like it's a mom and a dad thing, I feel like it's just like in the role of. Like I don't really go on TikTok, but like Instagram reels, like a lot of moms talk about that. Like as the mom, like it's just like and it's not like Cody expects it, like I never would, I don't think he ever expects me to like take care of our kid all the time like I think it's just like. It's just different. Being a dad is just different than being a mom yeah, I would agree with that.
Speaker 4:I think a lot of like my thought process. When I'm going through and scheduling my stuff out for the week, it's always in with the thought in mind like not actively, when am I taking care of Lincoln? Like when is he in my possession? Like when is he with me? It's always like how can I do something that will like provide? Does that make sense?
Speaker 2:Yeah, doing all the man. Iron man is definitely providing.
Speaker 4:It's like a hunter gatherer sort of situation.
Speaker 2:Doing golf onuesdays is definitely getting money for us yeah, yeah just poking holes. That's fair.
Speaker 4:I don't have a rebuttal I don't have a rebuttal, yeah, uh, yeah, you're right, you're right.
Speaker 3:Those two things definitely don't qualify under what I just said hold on, we are shooting a video for old man iron man, though, so that could technically fall under podcast that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:I feel like I've done a really good job of building my life, that my free time is also working towards something like no matter what it is. I just don't get free time though no, you do, you can whenever you want, just tell me, I'll put it in the schedule. Put it in the schedule and then.
Speaker 2:So, like for an example, I asked like there's not many times that I'm like cody, can you watch lincoln? I'm gonna do this. And then I have I'm on friday tomorrow making bread with my mom. We're gonna learn how to make bread. I asked cody a long time ago, can you watch lincoln on friday night? And then he's like, well, he says yes. And then, like a month ago, he's like well, I gotta go to the casino and record, I said I will find a babysitter. I guess then, like a month ago, he's like well, I got to go to the casino and record, I said I will find a babysitter. I guess Then, like, I made one.
Speaker 4:To be fair, my job told me hey, you have to be here for a photo shoot.
Speaker 2:But you should have told your job. Hey, I have prior obligations.
Speaker 4:And I did. I got it switched. I'm going to the photo shoot on Saturday instead of that Friday.
Speaker 2:now, but I kind of had to put up a fight.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you did See. If she would have just laid down and let it happen, you'd have stomped all over her.
Speaker 2:Yes, if I would have said okay, whatever he would have just did it.
Speaker 1:Just got what he wanted.
Speaker 4:It's easier to say no to you than it is to say no to my job at times. Definitely that's fair, that's fair that's fair, that's fair.
Speaker 3:You know that's just having a close relationship with anyone. Is you're more comfortable telling your friend that, hey, I'm not gonna do this, not even just like relationship wise, but just in general, if work is easier to supersede, work over like a prior obligation, I get what you're saying people do say you know, not me.
Speaker 1:People probably more like mitch say, when it comes to the wage gap, part of the reason men make more money is because they are less willing to take time off for any reason, whereas some women, as some people like Mitch may say, are a lot more willing to just take time off or do something with the kids or do something with their friends or family.
Speaker 3:It's funny you say that because I take time off. I literally took time off work tomorrow to shoot a podcast, because Cody can't be here tomorrow because Taylor's making fucking bread.
Speaker 4:True.
Speaker 3:That is very true.
Speaker 1:That bread better be fucking tasty.
Speaker 2:I'll bring you guys some. Okay, so I don't. I feel like at least in our household, like we both are 50-50 about like taking time off for like at least our kid.
Speaker 1:Yeah, 50-50 about like taking time off for like at least our kid. Yeah, totally, I will say you guys are definitely a model, model couple, and one thing, one thing I really like about you two is that you guys fight, but in a in a fun way, like it's like nothing, it's not always serious or it's not like little. Fights aren't the end of the world for you guys. You know, like where some some couples an argument, it could ruin the whole relationship, where you guys are just kind of bickering, it's almost like you get something out of it.
Speaker 3:It's not even like a true, it's like you guys have been together for like 10 years roughly Nine, yeah, yeah and it feels like you've been together for 60. Like you're just like an old couple that like kind of bitches at each other, everyone smile, but you still like each other, so it's cool I feel like I agree we do have.
Speaker 2:Lately we've had a couple pretty serious fights where we didn't talk yeah, I mean you gotta figure too.
Speaker 4:I've been with taylor for a third of my entire life. Like that's crazy to think about it's crazy to think how fucking old you are a third of my entire life has been with this woman right here and it has changed drastically so many times, like the dynamic between us.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we both have changed.
Speaker 4:Totally and we started dating young. You say it's a 50-50 split or that little arguments don't necessarily matter, but a lot of times it has definitely there's been little things that cause big arguments, because it's like when we start arguing about a little thing, then we start arguing about the argument and then it'll turn into a big thing and then it just like snowballs from there.
Speaker 2:I feel like our biggest problem is we're both super stubborn.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 3:Like I feel like lately you're stubborn I'm just right that's really funny.
Speaker 2:You say that because lately cody keeps like bringing up. I'm glad you brought that up because cody keeps bringing up these ideas about stuff he wants to do to get us more money and I I don't disagree, but where we're at in our lives, I think like maybe this just needs to be put on pause and literally the other night, because I didn't a hundred percent like agree with him.
Speaker 1:That's not true. He was pissed.
Speaker 2:He was like but why? I said I don't, I just I don't, I just I don't know, I don't think that this is a good idea right now. And he, like he needs me to come up with like a 50 page spreadsheet of why I feel the way I feel. I said, cody, we can disagree, to disagree, like it, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 3:Like yeah, and he if you're wrong, you need to give me the reasons. Or if you think that I wrong, you need to give me the reasons. Or if you think that I'm wrong, you need to give me the reasons. No, he needs like a 50 page spreadsheet.
Speaker 2:I'm a big why guy?
Speaker 4:right, I know I said this on the last episode. Like when we were kids, for example, she didn't want me to go out. Or like, let's say, when I freshly turned 21,. You were still 20. And she was like I don't want me to go talk to other girls because she didn't want me to like potentially cheat on her. And in my head I'm thinking like well, that's not even an option, so obviously I'm still going out but that's not what you said, and that's a real condensed version of that.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I'm a big why? Guy, so like if, if I have this idea that I'm like really fired up about and I'm like this is such a good idea and here's why, here's why, here's why, here's why and then you know someone someone just says uh, nah, I just don't really feel like that's no, I'm like okay, hold on, that's just not good enough. You gave me your idea.
Speaker 2:And then I like poked holes, holes in it like well, what about this and this?
Speaker 1:and constructive holes.
Speaker 2:Yes, yep like okay, he wants to maybe do like an airbnb and I'm like, well, where would you do it? Like, first of all, we don't have the money to do that right now. I just think that should wait till we get debts paid off. Then great, let's do this. Okay. But like, where do you want it? And he's like on a random chunk of land and I'm like I don't think that's a good idea. Like, if you're going to do it, I think it should be like on a lake. Like that's what I was saying and he is just fuming.
Speaker 1:He's giving you the oh fine, fuck it, I don't even want to do it anymore.
Speaker 2:No, I'm not. You were yelling at me Like we literally didn't talk for a day, like that doesn't happen very often with us.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 2:And you didn't talk to me, because I 100% believe it's because I didn't agree with you, because you thought it was such a good idea Like anyone should have agreed with you, and because I simply didn't. You're like, you're fucking stupid.
Speaker 4:I never said that.
Speaker 2:No. But, but you made me feel that way okay.
Speaker 4:So again, I'm a I'm a big why? Guy.
Speaker 2:So if the thought is just that you wouldn't rent an Airbnb that wasn't on a late I'm thinking in my head like well, okay you're not the person I'm advertising would come and I'm like, okay, cody, do you have proof of any of this?
Speaker 3:like, and he was just, and I said I think I think you have a very similar mentality of me, cody, where if you get an idea in your head, you can really ramp yourself up to believe in that idea no matter what it is, I'm all about it no matter what it is. If you can convince yourself that you're right, no one's gonna fucking convince you you're wrong. And then if you present that idea to someone and they tell you you're wrong, that's fucking aggravating.
Speaker 3:Yeah, it's like because it's like yeah then, because then it's like I've already been thinking about this for a fucking week and I was. I was trying to present it to something where you would be like, yeah, and help me like support me and you didn't. Yeah, okay, and that's fucking.
Speaker 4:That shit pisses me off that's exactly what this was, but, um, you know, I think it was just a lot of miscommunication, because then, once we started getting mad at each other, then it was just like then there's no convincing either person, so lesson learned, I think it's all about you were mean all. It's all about the pack what did he say?
Speaker 2:so I don't want to open up a box I can't shut, like when we get in like arguments like this, where we're just basically like obviously an argument like we're not agreeing on something, he gets like a little extra mean and we'll like okay, whatever, go ahead.
Speaker 2:Like he starts interrupting me a lot and I make a conscious effort to sit there and and I know when you're fighting like you're, you're always thinking of what you're gonna say while they're saying it and then you're not actively listening. So I try really hard not to do that. But all I can think in my head is like he just fucking interrupted me and then if I try to like kind of cut him off when I think he's done, oh, actually that I like that you brought that up, because there was one one moment that stands out to me.
Speaker 4:That was like I pulled this new little trick, this new little diddy that I came up with and you really did not like it, where she cut me off and so she starts talking and I put my hand up in between us, holy shit. And we're talking like true argument yes, in my face we're like you know we're yelling at each other and it was like this.
Speaker 2:And I'm talking and she interrupts me and I just put my hand up and she lost it. She lost, but he also. But he also will, like I never say like shut the fuck up, and like that's kind of his biggest thing.
Speaker 4:Like when we're fighting and arguing, like cody will tell me to shut the fuck up that's kind of where I draw the line, though that's like probably the meanest thing I've ever said okay, but I never say that to you.
Speaker 2:I don't get that mean and nasty to you.
Speaker 3:But you can't use that as a weapon.
Speaker 4:You can't use that as a weapon you do just in different ways. I can see you're not in agreeance with that.
Speaker 2:Can you give me an example?
Speaker 4:Yeah, I'm trying to think. I'm trying to think Uh, I can't off the top of my head right now, exactly because I'm kind of put on the spot.
Speaker 1:Sometimes she'll be like you're not fit, You're barely handsome, yeah baldy.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I feel like that's kind of my biggest pet peeve is when we're arguing and not agreeing. That's totally normal. Couples do that. I just like when he takes it to the shut up. It's like I don't tell you to shut up but inflection matters hold on hold on he will get to say his whole entire point and say everything he wants, and then I have to just be done right then.
Speaker 3:And there have you ever told him to shut the fuck up? Have you ever thought about just telling him to shut up?
Speaker 2:I'm sure I have, but like his is literally every argument we have that I'm not agreeing with him.
Speaker 4:But it's okay.
Speaker 2:But then you don't let me finish.
Speaker 3:Go ahead.
Speaker 2:You don't let me finish then. So we're peak arguing and I feel like, okay, I just thought of some really valid things I want to say, and then I'll try to start saying them, and he's like shut up, I don't even want to hear it anymore. This is fucking stupid.
Speaker 3:And then I don't even want to hear it anymore this is fucking stupid.
Speaker 2:And then I don't get to say it.
Speaker 3:He gets to say everything he wants and I'm just supposed to shut up. That's a really productive way of winning an argument Is to only say your piece and then, as soon as someone wants to say their piece back, you should be like actually no.
Speaker 2:I'm done listening.
Speaker 3:That is honestly kind of what happens, Dude that's a winner's way to fucking go about it, dude.
Speaker 4:Hell yeah, let me just say that inflection does matter and it's not like shut the fuck up. It's like shut the fuck up Like you don't even know. It is not. You don't even know what you're saying.
Speaker 2:Now you're trying to cover your ass because I just exposed you.
Speaker 3:I'm going to get canceled.
Speaker 4:Cody, you do not say it nicely. Like shut up, taylor. You're so funny I didn't say that.
Speaker 2:I didn't say that. By any means. You literally say it in a mean ass tone. I'm gonna start fucking secretly recording our arguments I can play them.
Speaker 1:Send it to me, I'll play it live, okay deal you can record them, because I will.
Speaker 4:I will stand behind this, that I never say it in a way that is. No, it could well. Okay, let me just say this Shut up, tay. Yeah, oh my God, it could be meaner.
Speaker 2:It could be meaner, so that makes it okay.
Speaker 4:No, but I'm just saying, I'm not giving it my all, you're just backtracking. I'm not saying it with my chest.
Speaker 2:You're backtracking because now everyone's watching this and they're like backpedaling.
Speaker 4:He's a bad guy. Yeah, I don't really like him.
Speaker 2:All right, bring Taylor on, cancel Cody.
Speaker 1:I was just going to ask. When you guys do have these fights and you're not talking to each other, the tensions are high. Who's usually the first person to bring it back around, and how do you guys usually retain the peace around the household.
Speaker 2:I'm going to say like 90% of the time we just start talking like it never happened.
Speaker 4:It just kind of goes with every time. We kind of ignore it and then we'll bring it up later on.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and then our next fight.
Speaker 3:I think that's actually a healthy way to fucking go about it.
Speaker 2:A lot of people don't think that we just need some time to cool off Me and Brooke got into a fight last night over like literally nothing.
Speaker 3:Like I came home and I was just in a mood and she was in a mood and we just got in a fight over absolutely nothing and she was getting ready for bed. She was in the bathroom and I'm like, hey, I'm going to close this bathroom door and we're both going to just admit that we were wrong and 10 minutes from now, we're just going to be cool, we don't admit we're wrong.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's the problem.
Speaker 3:I'm like we're not going to bring it.
Speaker 2:I didn't say, said it like, hey, 10 minutes, we're both gonna cool off, let's go to bed, we're fine well, just like randomly, just start talking about something.
Speaker 4:Yeah, we'll, we'll, we'll get to a point where we just where we won't talk, and then all of a sudden we'll be, forced to talk, whether it be something lincoln related or something that's more important at the time, and then, like a couple days later, sometimes a couple hours later, we'll. Then we'll kind of bring it up and be like hey, yeah, listen.
Speaker 3:I feel like we do. Is Cody a big sorry guy? We'll explain it.
Speaker 4:Does he say sorry? No, no, you know, I have apologized.
Speaker 2:I will apologize, but a lot of times I'll just like, hey, this is why I felt this way and I feel very strongly about that I feel like I used to always apologize, like when we got into fights, and now I feel like we both don't apologize, but like we acknowledge what we did was like wrong, but we won't say that like you won't say sorry, yeah, we won't say like oh my god, I was wrong, it's just like.
Speaker 4:This is why I felt this way and got so hot yeah, like hey, uh, hey, yeah, I know that wasn't right, I won't do that again, and that's kind of where it ends.
Speaker 1:Do you have it in you to give an? I'm sorry, Because I know guys that will. They would rather die than say sorry to someone.
Speaker 4:I definitely have, but it's very few and far between.
Speaker 2:Like I feel like I could count, like on, like maybe more than two hands, but I hate the apology guys too, like that's I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1:I'm so sorry they're the oh, I apologize for my actions. Like just say sorry, you fucking pussy I feel like I'm a big thing I'm a big.
Speaker 3:That was my bad kind of guy. I'm a big like like if I fuck something up. He doesn't really say that either, not even like just like relationship wise, but in general, if I fuck something up, I'll be like that was my bad, that's on me, I'll take that, let's move on See.
Speaker 2:that's where we're both so stubborn.
Speaker 4:I feel like I'm just so stuck in my way that, like, unless you convince me, I'm not going to say sorry because I still believe that.
Speaker 1:There convincing you when you're stuck in your way. Well, no, let's not even use it in that. That regard, let's. If you wronged somebody, and you clearly wronged this person, do you still have a problem saying sorry?
Speaker 4:if you've presented me with facts that say this is why you've wronged? No, it's, it's very obvious if I've made it clear to myself that I've wronged this person, then I will say sorry, yes, but most of the time that I won't physically or verbally say sorry, it's because I still just really don't believe that that was wrong. I just think maybe, how I went about the argument maybe it's wrong. Does that make sense?
Speaker 2:because we don't argue about. Like you did this and now I'm mad at you, like we never really argue, like you talk to someone, and I'm mad at you like it's more like it's hey, I had this idea, and like we just don't agree on it.
Speaker 4:It's almost always like hey, the the thing that we started arguing about escalated to this other way way that we argued, and that's what I'm sorry about, like the thing that I was arguing about.
Speaker 3:I still feel passionate about I feel like I'm pretty big about apologizing about my tone because, like, I have the tone of like if I am mad take a note if I am mad I will say shit that I like.
Speaker 2:Just it does not need to be said in that way yeah, right, like I'll openly admit like a hand up in her face.
Speaker 3:No, not no way worse than that way fucking just say something that is like I was telling I've told Sam and Cody I made my sister cry the other like last week or something like that, over something that was like it was. It was a big enough deal where I was like pretty pissed about it, but I took it way too far and I like shouldn't have said it that way and I was like, hey, I didn't mean to like fucking blow you up about it, but I'm not going to apologize for what I did, like I didn't, I didn't mean to make you cry, but also I'm not wrong, just so we're clear.
Speaker 1:Like dude, I know exactly what you're saying. I mean my, my sister. I've had times where I said things to my sister where I'm like, ah fuck, I don't take it back by any means, but it was a little strong, like she was giving me shit about not going to her college graduation and I was like oh, who gives a? Fuck about your graduation. Why the fuck would I drive there?
Speaker 2:yeah, sam, that's my god do you think that's a big deal yeah, college is not the fuck does it.
Speaker 1:What is she gonna see me in the crowd of a thousand plus people like who the?
Speaker 2:fuck, it's just the thought of being there. See, men, just.
Speaker 3:Do you want to know the line that I told Michaela? That made her cry?
Speaker 2:What.
Speaker 3:Was uh, that's not the fucking problem right now. You're the fucking problem right now.
Speaker 2:You guys, but it was, it was.
Speaker 3:I wasn't. I didn't mean to say it like that. I'm a good guy. That's just how it came across.
Speaker 2:Cody is like anyone's got any little thing going on. I'm like we don't really need to go and Cody's like we gotta go.
Speaker 4:I'm really big on events like that.
Speaker 1:Cody, you show the fuck up. That is one thing.
Speaker 4:Anyone that I truly respect and that I genuinely like.
Speaker 2:Which is everyone.
Speaker 4:Which is a lot of people.
Speaker 1:That's a good thing.
Speaker 4:I will make time to go to something that you deem very important, yeah, and to a fault. Yeah, like it will mess up all of my other plans because of that, but I will make a point that I will be there.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 4:It can be a bad trade. I do think a college graduation like college is hard.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's a bitch to sit through, like Cody's university graduation was the worst thing I've ever done.
Speaker 4:It was like a couple hours that's what I'm talking about. You gotta be there to show the support here's here's the thing the people that were there for me and I will remember everyone that was there, including our friend tony. Our friend tony sat through that entire graduation and sat there. Tony and I will be boys for the rest of my life.
Speaker 3:Graduations are a tough one for me because I remember openly telling everyone do not come to my high school graduation.
Speaker 4:I feel like maybe it's different for girls, high school is different also.
Speaker 2:High school is different. College is like you paid, no one needs to go to college. I mean, you technically don't need to go to high school.
Speaker 4:But college is just like, and that's college is usually hard to not. That high school's not, but it's kind of not.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean no it's kind of that was my thing. That was why I told people not to come to my high school graduation, because I'm like this is something that is kind of fucking expected yes, I should.
Speaker 2:What did she graduate with, was it?
Speaker 1:Yeah, it was a dumbass degree.
Speaker 2:I hope she doesn't listen. You owe her an apology.
Speaker 1:I know her friends do so. I'm sorry, I didn't mean any of this.
Speaker 2:Any degree in college. Even if it's a dumbass degree, it's still hard to get and you pay a lot of fucking money. That's the biggest thing right there. You pay a lot of fucking money. That's the biggest thing right there.
Speaker 4:You pay a lot of money for college. For me, the money thing doesn't matter. Like it doesn't matter if you go to a tech school, it doesn't matter if you go to a university, like, whatever the case, if you're going to Harvard, ivy League, whatever. I think it's more just like you stood that out, like most people don't. I can't remember the statistic, but like they, they told us at the beginning of our freshman year of college that I can't remember what it was like 75 of you or 80 of you won't even be here next year and I was like, ah, yeah, right, and then that was no joke. That was the case. It got slimmer and slimmer and slimmer. Until graduation, my program it was only like 20 people. It started at like a couple thousand, you know it was crazy dude.
Speaker 1:I know I see as somebody that dropped out of college and was a terrible college student. I surrounded myself with other people that were terrible students and dropped out my main friend group going from the first year to the second year of college. Me and two other people made it out of 15 of my friends only three of us went to the next year of college. Damn people were dude. Half of them were gone after the first semester see, it's a big deal, that was always a power move is, like you know, in one semester you're not making.
Speaker 4:It might as well just call it, but honestly I respect that, because there's a lot of people that stick it out and and this is where college, or just like going to college, gets the bad reputation because a lot of people don't use what they go for, because they think they have to stick it out. Because I've already committed Me personally, I've always known that I wanted to do graphic design and videography, so it was a no-brainer for me to take that obviously, and I still do it to this day. So the people that graduate with some degree that they are not going to be able to get a job in are the people I think that everyone looks to and they're like college doesn't make sense, it's not worth it, you know um, I don't know.
Speaker 1:No, I totally agree. I think you for college to work for a majority of people you in you know in an ideal world this will never happen, but if you know what you're going into, you're so much better set up for success. I didn't even have a major my first year. My second year I just picked one because I had to.
Speaker 2:You also shouldn't have to pick a major in what you're going to do for the rest of your life at 18 years old.
Speaker 1:Definitely throws a wrench and I hate, like when I was in high school.
Speaker 2:I feel like it's actually the tides have changed a little bit, but even trade school was just shit, or? Going in for an apprenticeship and I think that's so important, I'll dude I would. I feel like it's changing.
Speaker 3:Now, though, I had a little bit of a fucking epiphany while you were saying that about your friend group, because I was thinking about line school and I think when we started, I want to say we had 28 kids and I think we graduated 12, and I would say half of those dropouts were within the first two weeks, because the first two weeks is like their version of like hell week, of like we're gonna weed out the dumb asses right now and get it over with the dudes that I graduated with. I most of them I haven't seen in four years and I still talk to them weekly. I have not seen their face in four years and I still talk to them almost.
Speaker 3:I I mean probably every other few days, like just very often I talk to them over the phone. The kids who dropped out in the first two weeks, I don't even fucking know their names.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I have no idea who that is. More importantly, what I got out of college myself is less on the education itself and more on like the people and experiences that you, that you get put in front of when you're put in the situation of being on your own and having to make your own decisions like, how do you make those decisions and the people that you make them with, like the like that, just that network of people. It's a totally different bond and dynamic.
Speaker 3:You go through an experience together. It's very it's almost like militaristic, like the guys who go to the military together are like super, super good buddies because they go through shit with each other right. That's why they're good buddies they get the fucking shit kicked out of them together as a team, right?
Speaker 3:yeah, that's what makes it fucking sweet. That's why, like those guys that I went to line school with, the guys that I have literally not seen their faces in four years, if I ran into them in public, I would like give them the biggest hug, like they will be my homies kiss they'll, they'll be, my homies forever
Speaker 4:just because, like it did suck and we went absolutely yeah, I mean any of my buddies now, I see, from college.
Speaker 1:I mean it's like we picked up, like we never stopped talking to each other and that it's easiest with them too, because that's how it all started, like right, oh, you're a random dude, we happen to live in the same hall, we're friends now and just you just pick right up and you make. It was crazy to me making friends in the dorms like six weeks felt like a whole year. You know, because you're living together, you're, you're in the same building every single day. You see each other every day after class and college. I feel like I didn't become an adult until I went to college like I.
Speaker 1:I was 18, my entire senior year that whole summer, but I still lived at my parents full time. I'd never known anything different and I think that really changed me. Like you were saying, making my own decisions, because not to throw somebody like Bean Boy under the bus, but Bean Boy- has lived with his dad his entire life.
Speaker 1:He's lived in the same home, had the same room. I mean he had split parents, but for the most part he's always lived with his parents and he's he's still very afraid of his dad and he still has a lot of mindsets of you know somebody that lived at home as a kid and I think that makes a big difference. And another thing I noticed too is like I, my freshman roommate I wasn't even friends with, I didn't even like him at all, but we we found out how to live together and live pretty decent Like we. We could coexist but we didn't hang out. And then in my next house I had four roommates in a tiny ass house and I see all my friends that never either they lived with their parents, parents got an apartment by themselves or bought their own house. They just can't handle roommates. They haven't gone through any of that bullshit.
Speaker 2:I didn't live in a dorm and I had roommates, but that's the thing is you had roommates.
Speaker 1:You've at least experienced that we're like it's, it's crazy, as some of these people that have lived the same way for so long. It's just almost almost impossible for them to switch it up.
Speaker 2:That's Cody, and I have talked a lot about that, because Pine City is not, I feel like, very diverse Maybe more so now than when we were in high school and I feel like getting out of the small town mentality and living in a city.
Speaker 4:I think just getting exposed to different ideas, like other people's perspective on the world, growing up in a totally different environment, is so important. I think, honestly, that's the biggest thing for me. Going to school with people who grew up dirt poor but also as millionaires in the same place creates this whole different idea storm. You know where? It's like the guy that grew up in a million dollar mansion gal that grew up in a million dollar mansion gal that grew up in the million dollar mansion.
Speaker 4:I didn't want you to be like oh my god, you were talking to girls no that they.
Speaker 2:Okay, let's say they them I'm just joking, I was just insecure when we first started dating I was joking entirely.
Speaker 4:Okay, let's say a girl, one of the best girlfriends that I ever had, a non-binary up in a million dollar mansion and a guy grew up in uh, in a little shanty you know, like the house, no side a girl like a little trailer war yeah, exactly, but they're in the same place, experiencing this same experience, but from two totally different viewpoints, and just seeing that, being involved with that and having your own perspective contribute to it, and why it's wrong or why it's right, I think teaches you a lot about yourself, do you think?
Speaker 3:about the world. Do you think that that makes it that much better when you come back to, like, say, pine city? You know what I'm saying like to be like because everyone, everyone, when we were like, you know, 10th, 11th, 12th grade, everyone's like I'm fucking moving out of this fucking shit hole, yeah, fuck this place. And then 80 of the people come back. And I think there's a reason for that.
Speaker 3:I think it's because, like you, feel like you're part of something when you get home, you know you go out and you experience these things and you meet all these new people and it's not a bad thing, but you're not part of it we have.
Speaker 4:And then you can come back to pine city and be like everyone knows me here I'm part of this community we have a really unique scenario taylor and I because, like a lot of our friends that we were really good friends with in high school, all moved back to pine city as well and, like all of them, are having kids at the same time. We're having kids, and so it's like a really tight network of people that we've known almost our entire life yeah, and so like. In that regard, I think it's really unique.
Speaker 2:That was one of the biggest reasons why I I didn't go to university. So when cody and I started dating, I had stayed home and went to pine tech for my first year of college and then I went to northland, which was also community college, so I never like made those types of friends but through me, but through you, I did, but it was still just like, not necessarily the same, like I'm really close with angie environment and that's pretty much it.
Speaker 2:So like I feel like I was kind of the push for us to move back to, after he graduated, pine city, because, like I still have friends here in the lakes, I miss the lakes yeah, definitely, but um, yeah, I mean wow, I don't know how we got off on that long.
Speaker 4:We're on a tangent.
Speaker 1:Well, and cody was telling me there was too many people of color around where he was living. You wanted to come back to the great white pine city, baby yeah, I am on record saying that guys. Honestly, I'm sweating like a whore at church. I really want to go to bed. Yeah right, you want to get home, play a video game? Dude, it's too late now, man. I gotta, I gotta get up and pay the bills. You know as as guys.
Speaker 4:We understand that you gotta sling some brick all right, I gotta lay up a couple chimneys taylor is there any closing remarks that you want to leave us with today?
Speaker 2:I just want to say, if you have a mom in your life, especially with Mother's Day coming up, thank her for being pregnant for nine months and changing her whole life, while the guys do nothing. And then.
Speaker 1:Besides telling you to shut the fuck up, how has?
Speaker 3:his life changed shit on men for a couple minutes. Here we need this.
Speaker 2:Let's end that way. Okay, this was a cody roast. We got on some weird topics a little off subject. We'll end on a high note fucking cody over. No, he's good, I just just appreciate he's fit, he's handsome. Appreciate the mothers in your life and all that they sacrifice. When you're pregnant, you have to watch what you're doing when you birth a child. That's not easy. And then just afterwards, like you as a mom, your life is always different and you have different expectations.
Speaker 4:And then let's also recognize the fathers that got to sleep on those hard beds.
Speaker 1:Are you probably just dreading it, dude? You know the day's coming.
Speaker 2:I'm just kidding, they're kind of nice looking like it looked more comfortable that my bed like breaks half of at the end of it breaks down, so it's not even comfy some people are not fortunate enough to have a mom in their life.
Speaker 4:So thank a mother figure. If you can't thank your mom directly, thank a mother figure, right?
Speaker 3:yeah hell yeah, dude, this is, I love this positive very wholesome that we have here I fucking this I'm jacked up for mother's day.
Speaker 4:Now this is actually gonna come out after mother's day.
Speaker 2:I was thinking about that, but so you can still thank a mom or a mother figure at any point in your life, because I think it's really like until I became a mother, I didn't realize like how much my mom like sacrificed and did.
Speaker 3:If you didn't buy your mom fucking flowers for Mother's Day, get your ass out there and like or mother figure, you know what I'm saying or mother figure.
Speaker 2:Or parent figure. It doesn't necessarily have to be a female, it could be just a parent figure. That's what I'm saying. What if your mom's transgender?
Speaker 1:It doesn't necessarily have to be a female. Yeah, it could be just a parent figure.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm saying All right, but specifically the one that birthed you. What if your mom's transgender? Do you still have to?
Speaker 1:celebrate. Cut the recording.
Speaker 2:So like she's a he now.
Speaker 4:Yeah, all right, we'll see you guys next week.
Speaker 2:That's up to them.
